A Little Time for Mom
As a busy parent it is hard to find time to enjoy something you like. It seems that every activity centers around the children. Although spending time with your kids is a priority, it doesn't have to be your entire life. If you have been Mom for so long that you have forgotten how to be you, consider taking up a hobby. It will force you to make time for yourself while helping you find your identity.
Choosing the Right Hobby
Choose your hobby carefully. It should be something you are interested in and enjoy. Don't worry if your first pick turns out to be a disappointment. Simply try something else. Remember that the point is to give you a much needed break while doing something you love. If the hobby you first tried frustrates you, it is time to move on to something else.
Invest in Good Tools
Be prepared to invest in your new hobby. Proper tools and materials will make your projects much easier to complete. Cheap versions of what you need, or trying to use something else in place of what is truly required, makes a hobby aggravating. For example, if you decide to paint, make sure you purchase your equipment from reputable
artist brush manufacturers.
Keep Moving Forward
The best thing about a hobby is that you can keep your interest growing by continually moving forward. Start by learning the basics. Once you have mastered that, you can begin working on projects that are a little bit harder. Before you know it, you will be working at an advanced level. Even when you feel you have totally mastered the art, you can continue to grow by teaching others.
Starting a hobby may be one of the best things you can do for yourself. Set aside a few minutes every day to devote to it. Learn to let your partner, a parent, or good friend take over the childcare duties while you re-discover the person you really are.
